I often hear, “When someone is fed up, it’s over,” is this true? I wonder how this varies between men and women. Are women able to deal with more none sense than men? I remember the R. Kelly’s song, when a woman’s fed up, his lyrics said:
Cuz when a woman’s fed up
(No matter how you beg, no)
It ain’t nothing you can do about it
(Nothing you can do about it)
It’s like running out of love
(No matter what you say, no)
And then it’s too late to talk about it
(Too late to talk about it)
Question: Are these lyrics true, once a woman’s fed up, “it ain’t nothing you can do about it?”
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I’d say yes a woman can take a lot more than a mancorrection a strong woman that isand the rest of the rest of those lyrics are true too. I personaly found out the hard way the really sad part is years later I see how her ways were only to make me a better person. But you live & you learn I was man enough to admit it to her.
I think that because I try so hard to make a relationship work while I’m in it, once I let it go I’m done. I don’t like to go through the cycle of breaking up and getting back together 50 times. I try to make it work. Once I see there is no hope.…“There’s nothing he can do about it”.
I think it depends on the woman and the reason she says she’s done. Many times if a man does something really stupid, a woman will say that to teach him a lesson and make it clear that she will not put up with certain behaviors. If she’s mad about something he’s done 1000 times, and she says it, she probably doesn’t mean it because she’s been dealing with it all this time.
Usually, when you get the “i’m done”, no returned calls, text messages or any contact for more than a couple of days. She really means it.
It’s juvenile to keep saying “i’m done” just to get a reaction, but many of us do it.